ISOLATION ~ forces you to disconnect from others such as friends and family
LACK OF RESPECT ~ do not respect you as an individual, do not respect your limits and use of safewords
NO LIMITS ~ they say have no limits this is a sign they are lying because everyone as limits even if they haven't been discovered yet
THEMSELVES ~ when everything is about their wants and needs and yours are not treated as equally important
ADDRESSING ~ expectations of you addressing them as your superior immediately
PLAYING WITH HEIGHTENED EMOTIONS ~ when they want to play punish when they are angry upset for example. Because this shows lack of self control and more damage can be done
IMMEDIATE SUBMISSION ~ expectations of you obeying them and doing tasks straight away without getting to know you
NO AFTERCARE ~ it is something that should always in place even if not needed after every play session or scene
NO COMMUNICATION ~ if they do not communicate clearly and consistently and thinks its OK to ghost you
GUILT ~ makes you feel guilty about using safewords or signals or even about the limits you have
SEX ~ everything is sexual, a power exchange dynamic is so much more than sex