It doesn't matter if you are a dominant or a submissive or even in a dynamic, but we all use things no matter how small from the lifestyle to help us in our vanilla worlds, which helps makes us stronger, more determined, even with coping with stressful situations etc. We all lead different lives but if you look closly you will see things that we use daily to help us. For a submissive it could be there to help provide them more structure, routine and stability which enables them to be better selves. Discipline can be given to a submissive from their dominant to help correct negative behaviors in their vanilla lives. Dominants tend. To use self discipline which can help them hit personal and career goals, they can even be physical or kink. Using some dominant traits can help further your career if applied to situations correctly. Of course the things each individual uses to help them through is different, due to personal needs and goals. Of course all of this encourages self growth which is vital so we can all be better versions of ourselves