Friendships are something we all need as individuals to maintain our mental and emotional health, without the majority will fall into a dark depression this is because as human beings we are a tribe/group species which means we need others in many ways to be healthy and strive in our everyday lives. So its vital as social creatures we have some form of interaction with others regularly and we are lucky enough to have many varieties to do this for example going out to dinner and having physical interaction and or touch, greeting people in the street can also be apart of this and how to start broadening your friendships and building new ones, then you have many online platforms such as Facebook/Instagram/kik where you can find groups or meet new people especially if you join groups that involve your interests and pleasures.
FRIENDSHIPS IN BDSM
Friendships in kink once formed tend to be some of the strongest befause there aren’t many who understand our lifestyle/kinks so once that friendship has formed it tends to be very strong, also having this kind of friendship means you can talk openly and freely about desires wants needs and worries you might not be able to share with those in the vanilla world which strengthens that bond more. In these kind of friendship you can also show and talk freely without being judged for being you because the others may not understand why we do what we do and our choices
Postives of a kinky friend in the lifestyle
When we are kinky and have a kinky friend to talk with it gives us more freedom and builds up ones self esteem and confidence with oneself, it also provides a comfort and shows you that you are not alone and their are others who are in the lifestyle and know you wont be judged by them. Also you can get creative with each other coming up with fun ideas and the freedom to talk about things that worry you also and the ability to ask questions growing yourself as an individual.
IMPORTANCE OF A KINKY FRIEND IN THE LIFESTYLE
For me as an individual it’s vital to have interaction with others in the community and lifestyle because it gives me confidence and the ability to ask questions and talk and get advice when needed and know I’m not the only one and know I have nothing to be ashamed off. So if you are new to our world find groups etc. online or munches and Communities near you and see what I’m Talking about.
NEGATIVES OF THIS FRIENDSHIP
The only negatives i can think of is that sometimes lines could become blurred and fall for the individual which happens in the vanilla world too! Also when trust is broken but that also happens in the vanilla world too.
So yes having a kinky friend/s can be so beneficial to oneself on many levels and help with your growth and out community is very open and. Welcoming and you never know how far you can soar till you take that leap of faith and spread those wings ❤️