Is one of the most Important things you will need to know whether you are a fellow kinksters or in the vanilla world. It is needed, so that you give permission if you choose to for certain activities you want to try or use in a play session or scene. It is needed whether it's one person or multiple people involved. Is one of the most Important things you will need to know whether you are a fellow kinksters or in the vanilla world. It is needed, so that you give permission if you choose to for certain activities you want to try or use in a play session or scene. It is needed whether it's one person or multiple people involved.
Within the lifestyle and forming a dynamic or relationship with another in the community usually entails alot of negotiations and talking and can be made into a written or verbal contract. This is to ensure our hard limits do not get pushed without our say so because some. Things have alot of risks and can be dangerous. The quintessential thing about consent is if you haven't said the word yes you have not given your consent for these activities. If you say yes and later on decide you don't want to anymore you can turn around and say no. Consent is their to protect ourselves and our partners within our dynamics from getting physically emotionally or mentally hurt or scared so please take the time to talk through everything and make it clear when it comes to consenting. Without consent it won't be fun and that's not what is about.
There are many forms of consent and I will post more to share my views on those. 💋
Dynamic Consent
It's a form of consent used by people within theifestyle, this form of consent can be consistent or changed at anytime. It's the complete opposite of Blanket consent or contractual consent which are the two types of consent that when given won't be changed. Dynamic consent is becoming more popular withing the community because this doesn't sometimes fall low on true consensual activities. This allows submissives to consent to. An activity but able to change it at a later date if that experience was not pleasurable or becomes a limit for that individual. But the key is constant communication and honesty to make sure consent is there. This also allows the submissive to speak up when something that becomes a new limit and express it freely and the same can go for the dominant too.
Metaconsent
Can also be known as consensual non-consent. It assumes that consent has been given by all parties in the activity. It originates from consent given in the past in your dynamic. Metaconsent happens without foreward acknowledgement or planning. It is also one on the greatest ways to show complete trust in your partner(s). If not used properly can lead to physical and emotional harm for the submissive one. But one thing should always apparent consent needs to be given verbally and that everyone is capable to consent to these actions in whatever form of consent you use within your dynamic.
Blanket consent
It is usually when the submissive will choose to give their dominant their consent to anything the dominant decides to do with them in a scene. Once you decide to give your dominant blanket consent it usually cannot be taken back. This is not the form of consent you give to anyone or when forming a dynamic with someone and building up your trust with someone. It's is most common with long term Dom, submissive dynamics and 24/7 relationships e.g. Master and slave that live together.
But submissives usually will choose to give this consent when they can trust their dominant to read their body language and facial expressions and that they will listen to them when needed to express extreme dislikes or if something needs to be stopped immediately. You should both know each other inside out before giving this kind of consent. But communication is key through out this and understanding of your submissive mentally and physically in order for them to give you blanket consent which is a huge sign of how much they trust in you as the dominant.
Capacity of consent
It is the individuals ability to understand and discuss choices and decisions about sexual activities e.g. Those that cannot are children, some but not all people with mental or developmental handicaps, being under the influence of drugs or alcohol and those who are unconscious. Some of these people may seem to be consenting but because they cannot truly understand thee implications of a situation at hand they cannot give their consent. It is the individuals ability to understand and discuss choices and decisions about sexual activities e.g. Those that cannot are children, some but not all people with mental or developmental handicaps, being under the influence of drugs or alcohol and those who are unconscious.
Some of these people may seem to be consenting but because they cannot truly understand the implications of what will happen so cannot consent to it truly. This is something often missed in sex Ed because they typical focus on the NO means No as the standerd. But for true consent to be given it needs to given in the form of a yes at all times. It is the individuals ability to understand and discuss choices and decisions about sexual activities e.g. Those that cannot are children, some but not all people with mental or developmental handicaps, being under the influence of drugs or alcohol and those who are unconscious. Some of these people may seem to be consenting but because they cannot truly understand thee implications of a situation at hand they cannot give their consent.t is the individuals ability to understand and discuss choices and decisions about sexual activities e.g. Those that cannot are children, some but not all people with mental or developmental handicaps, being under the influence of drugs or alcohol and those who are unconscious. Some of these people may seem to be consenting but because they cannot truly understand the implications of what will happen so cannot consent to it truly. This is something often missed in sex Ed because they typical focus on the NO means No as the standerd. But for true consent to be given it needs to given in the form of a yes at all times. is something often missed in sex Ed because they typical focus on the NO means No as the standerd. But for true consent to be given it needs to given in the form of a yes at all times.
Informed consent
the type of consent we give freely and happily when we are aware of everything we are consenting too and not coerced or pushed into and must me of legal age. This type of consent is vital before doing and play session or scene especially those scenes that appear to be non consensual. It can be to any and everything that involves play or your dynamic.
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